conciliating
v.
使（某人）息怒或友好，安抚，劝慰( conciliate的现在分词 );
（使）意见一致，调节;
例句:
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He spoke in a low, nervous, conciliating voice.
他说话时声音低沉、紧张，带着一种安抚的口吻。
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Women have more tact. They are more conciliating; they can persuade better.
女人更懂得策略, 她们更能赢得别人的同情抚慰, 更善于劝说诱导.
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It was a pleasant evening, I said, conciliating the moment.
真是个令人愉快的夜晚, 我为了应景助兴说了这么一句话.